Tag: Rhianna Lily

Capture Your Grief – Honour

Capture Your Grief – Honour

Do you do anything to Honour your babys memory on special dates? Flowers. Flowers are your thing. Every march our house is filled with flowers. My birthday I get flowers. Our anniversary I get flowers. At Christmas we have flowers. Every year we have flowers. 

Capture Your Grief – Love Letter

Capture Your Grief – Love Letter

Today’s Capture Your Grief prompt is write your child a letter tell them everything you want them to know?  Our Rhianna Lily, Everything is so different without you. And it is different as time passes. We all miss you. Your Daddy, me and your brother’s. 

Capture Your Grief – Transformed

Capture Your Grief – Transformed

How has your experience changed you? That is the prompt for today’s Capture your grief. How has Rhianna dying changed me. I cry more. I am a glass half full person now, always expecting the worse. I second guess everything I do. I have lost 

Capture Your Grief -Support

Capture Your Grief -Support

Support – where are my favourite support resources. When Rhianna died we had a lot of support. From family, friends, Tommy’s, Saying Goodbye and Sands. All of them were amazing. And we have continued to support every one of them since loosing Rhianna as they 

Capture Your Grief – Wisdom

Capture Your Grief – Wisdom

Wisdom – what advice would you give to family and friends of people who have lost a baby? Six years ago we gave birth to our darling baby girl. In that time, I think we have learnt a few things. My first piece of advice 

Capture Your Grief – Healing

Capture Your Grief – Healing

What does healing look like for you? Healing is these three. All three of these boys have healed me over the years. Mr L has healed me from the minute we found out Rhianna died and I know that it has not been easy for 

Capture Your Grief – Rituals

Capture Your Grief – Rituals

What are some of the things you do to remember your child? I have never been a flower person. But since loosing Rhianna, we always have some sort of flower in the house. Her funeral was full of lilies. After her name. And for weeks 

Capture Your Grief – Today

Capture Your Grief – Today

Today where am I with my grief? I am happier. I am not so tired. I feel like I do not have to consciously make an effort not to be sad anymore. I still have bad days. I will always have bad days. I am 

Capture Your Grief – Essence

Capture Your Grief – Essence

Who is Rhianna? What is she to me? Does she have a name? What does her name mean? That is the prompts for today’s Capture Your Grief. Rhianna is our second child, our only baby girl and our girl in heaven. BB was going to 

Capture Your Grief – Purpose

Capture Your Grief – Purpose

Today’s prompt for Capture Your Grief is Purpose. Why are you doing Capture Your Grief this year. I have participated in some of the capture your grief prompts every year since Rhianna died, not completing it fully, and every year the reasons behind why I