Rhianna Lily our little girl born sleeping in 2012.
An Angel from the Book of Life
Wrote down my baby’s birth,
And whispered as she closed the book
“Too Beautiful for Earth”
This is Rhianna Lily’s space, her story, and how we carry on living our life without her here with the rest of us!
How do you connect with your child? Through this blog. I write everything I feel about Rhianna Lily on this blog. This is her space. I write it for her brothers to see. For the world to see. And for Rhianna. This is her space. …
Educate – what do you want others to know about your experience with grief, this is today’s prompt for Capture Your Grief. Where do I start… What do I want people to know? It NEVER goes away. It NEVER stops. Time heals for sure. But …
How do you cope when people say the wrong thing? This is a hard one and I think it depends where in your journey you are. Six years ago I would have cried, Mr L and I would have argued and it would have caused …
Do you do anything to Honour your babys memory on special dates? Flowers. Flowers are your thing. Every march our house is filled with flowers. My birthday I get flowers. Our anniversary I get flowers. At Christmas we have flowers. Every year we have flowers. …
Today’s Capture Your Grief prompt is write your child a letter tell them everything you want them to know? Our Rhianna Lily, Everything is so different without you. And it is different as time passes. We all miss you. Your Daddy, me and your brother’s. …
How has your experience changed you? That is the prompt for today’s Capture your grief. How has Rhianna dying changed me. I cry more. I am a glass half full person now, always expecting the worse. I second guess everything I do. I have lost …
Support – where are my favourite support resources. When Rhianna died we had a lot of support. From family, friends, Tommy’s, Saying Goodbye and Sands. All of them were amazing. And we have continued to support every one of them since loosing Rhianna as they …
Wisdom – what advice would you give to family and friends of people who have lost a baby? Six years ago we gave birth to our darling baby girl. In that time, I think we have learnt a few things. My first piece of advice …
What does healing look like for you? Healing is these three. All three of these boys have healed me over the years. Mr L has healed me from the minute we found out Rhianna died and I know that it has not been easy for …
What are some of the things you do to remember your child? I have never been a flower person. But since loosing Rhianna, we always have some sort of flower in the house. Her funeral was full of lilies. After her name. And for weeks …