I haven’t blogged much this week, because you know what grief is hard. You focus so much on the anniversaries, and the birthdays and celebrations that actually those days are never that difficult. Its the days after. They are the ones I feel the worst …
We don’t just remember you today. We don’t just miss you today. Every waking moment we think of you, we miss you. In our dreams we live our alternative life with you in it. Our broken hearts carry on forever changed. Forever missing a piece …
It’s babyloss awareness week, and I have to say this week it’s a tough one. I get it. I know why it’s important and it’s so so important. But when your nine years in I think it’s hard to keep going on about the fact …
There’s no right way to grieve. It is a hard thing to realise. But it is the truth. If you talk about your baby or child or any other loss every single day that is ok. If you never mention them that is ok. If …
October is here and October is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, with Babyloss Awareness Week in the middle from the 9th to 15th of October. It is a month and week that is important. That should be shouted about. That more people should be …
Something I have learnt over the years is that grief isn’t just pain. Grief comes in so many different forms and you never know what it will be or how it will hit. It isn’t just pain and tears. It’s anger. It’s hurt. It’s brain …
It’s strange what you attach to your baby when they are no longer here. The boys have memory boxes at home. I have their first outfits, they first shoes, and little bits and pieces of things that they loved and that mean a lot to …