I See You
I see you, I see you watching me, When you know I am not ok. I see you, Watching me holding back the tears. I see you, Watching me from the side. I see you, Watching me breathe through the pain. I see you, Watching …
Tag: Grief
It’s The Little Things
The big dates never surprise me when it comes to grief. The birthdays, Christmas, anniversaries. Those dates I expect to be bad. But it’s the small non big things that get me. They are the ones that I don’t expect. That take my breath away. …
Hello 2022
So 2022 is here. 2021 has gone. And the year is now in the past. It was a year of huge highs, and the biggest lows and heartbreaking moments our family have had to endure. It’s a year I would like to forget a lot …
Grief Is Hard
I haven’t blogged much this week, because you know what grief is hard. You focus so much on the anniversaries, and the birthdays and celebrations that actually those days are never that difficult. Its the days after. They are the ones I feel the worst …
There’s No Right Way
There’s no right way to grieve. It is a hard thing to realise. But it is the truth. If you talk about your baby or child or any other loss every single day that is ok. If you never mention them that is ok. If …
When Grief Isn’t Just Tears
The easiest grief is the tears. They are so simple you can deal with them. You get sad you cry. They make sense. The other feelings that come with grief are the hardest. The feeling of nothingness. Just the raw pain. The pure sadness. The …
Grief Isn’t Just Pain
Something I have learnt over the years is that grief isn’t just pain. Grief comes in so many different forms and you never know what it will be or how it will hit. It isn’t just pain and tears. It’s anger. It’s hurt. It’s brain …