Rhianna’s Winter Shelves

Rhianna’s Winter Shelves

Rhianna’s shelves are still one of the focal points in the garden and they will remain that way. Last winter they were just left and when the spring hit we really had to give them a bit of a sort out and make them lovely …

Rhianna’s Shoes

Rhianna’s Shoes

When we got married the men all wore canvas shoes. All of them were all different colours and it took a long time to decide on the colours. I had some gorgeous shoes for the wedding and then moved into my white canvas shoes for …

Our Family Lost A Baby

Our Family Lost A Baby

I have really toyed with this post, as I really don’t want it to come across as a post where I am having a moan about Babyloss Awareness as I really am not. I believe in everything that Babyloss Awareness Week stands for, I fully …

Wave of Light 2019 #blaw

Wave of Light 2019 #blaw

There are so many words I could write. There is so much I could say. But tonight I will let the candles do the talking. For tonight I will let them shine for you. For tonight we will remember all the babies lost. We love …

Remembering Rhianna

Remembering Rhianna

When you loose a child you worry a lot about how it affects your other children. From the moment Rhianna died we have been concerned about how it has affected BB and then having Boo the year after Rhianna died we always have worried about …

Babyloss Awareness Week 2019

Babyloss Awareness Week 2019

Today marks the beginning of Babyloss Awareness Week this year, it runs from the 9th – 15th of October, ending with the Wave of Light on the 15th. This week they are launching a new campaign, Out of Sight, Out of Mind something I really …

There Are No Rules

There Are No Rules

When you become a parent you quickly realise there is no rule book. And at times you really wish there was. When you loose a baby you quickly realise there is no rule book. And at times all you really wish there was. I remember …

Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month

Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month

October is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month with Babyloss Awareness Week also in the month from the 9th – 15th October finishing with the Wave of Light on the 15th. It’s a busy month for babyloss. It’s one that I always want to be …

Seven and a Half Years

Seven and a Half Years

Next week Rhianna would be seven and a half years old. And I have been feeling it the last couple of days. Not missing her anymore than we all miss her every moment of every single day as that is a given. We always miss …

Words

Words

Today I read a post on Facebook that was full of pictures of what people say to parents who have experienced babyloss, good and bad things that are said. It reminded me a lot of the post I wrote years ago about what people say …