Rhianna Lily our little girl born sleeping in 2012.
An Angel from the Book of Life
Wrote down my baby’s birth,
And whispered as she closed the book
“Too Beautiful for Earth”
This is Rhianna Lily’s space, her story, and how we carry on living our life without her here with the rest of us!
This year we have decorated the house. Which was so needed and we all love, but it means that the usual way we set up Rhianna’s Christmas decorations couldn’t be done this year. As we don’t have the same space or the same area anymore. …
I haven’t blogged much this week, because you know what grief is hard. You focus so much on the anniversaries, and the birthdays and celebrations that actually those days are never that difficult. Its the days after. They are the ones I feel the worst …
We don’t just remember you today. We don’t just miss you today. Every waking moment we think of you, we miss you. In our dreams we live our alternative life with you in it. Our broken hearts carry on forever changed. Forever missing a piece …
It’s babyloss awareness week, and I have to say this week it’s a tough one. I get it. I know why it’s important and it’s so so important. But when your nine years in I think it’s hard to keep going on about the fact …
There’s no right way to grieve. It is a hard thing to realise. But it is the truth. If you talk about your baby or child or any other loss every single day that is ok. If you never mention them that is ok. If …
October is here and October is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, with Babyloss Awareness Week in the middle from the 9th to 15th of October. It is a month and week that is important. That should be shouted about. That more people should be …
The easiest grief is the tears. They are so simple you can deal with them. You get sad you cry. They make sense. The other feelings that come with grief are the hardest. The feeling of nothingness. Just the raw pain. The pure sadness. The …
Today is National Rainbow Baby Day, a rainbow baby is a term used within the baby loss community for many years. Tommy’s describe a rainbow baby as a baby born following a loss during or after a pregnancy. For parents, rainbows symbolise hope and light …