Rhianna’s Headstone

Yesterday we spent some time discusses Rhianna’s headstone, once again.

Currently she just has the plaque with her name on at her gravestone, but we really want her to eventually have a headstone.

But things have always got in the way.

Mainly the fact that we can not agree on what would be best for her.

Our biggest thing is whether we should have one always showing she was a baby when she died or one that will be representative for her when she would be 18 and beyond.

We see ones we like them and then we do nothing about them, because they just aren’t quite right and it needs to be perfect.

And it is super hard to find the ‘perfect’ one.

I don’t want it the same as everyone else’s I want it to be unique to Rhianna.

Last night we were looking at stars. Which were lovely.

Just plain stars, with a slight difference.

We looked at black ones with pink writing on.

We looked at white ones with black writing.

As well as white ones with white writing.

We looked at all the variations, they were all nice.

But we still haven’t decided.

But we really do need to know decide.

She is seven and she still doesn’t have her gravestone, it has to be a priority now and something that we really need to sit down and discuss and look at in depth and finally decide what is perfect for her.