There’s No Right Way

There’s No Right Way

There’s no right way to grieve. It is a hard thing to realise. But it is the truth. If you talk about your baby or child or any other loss every single day that is ok. If you never mention them that is ok. If …

Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month

Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month

October is here and October is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, with Babyloss Awareness Week in the middle from the 9th to 15th of October. It is a month and week that is important. That should be shouted about. That more people should be …

I Blink And Miss It

I Blink And Miss It

I seem to blink and miss it at the moment. I have so many things in my head that I want to do. I am busy all the time. But I don’t seem to get what I want completed. I don’t seem to get what …

Back To School

Back To School

Just like that summer is over and it’s back to school. I never want mine to go back I love having them at home. This year I really didn’t want them to go back, they have kept me going this summer and was dreading them …

Overwhelm

Overwhelm

Sometimes life is just too damn overwhelming. Sometimes there is so much going on that you don’t really know where to start, or which way to turn. Sometimes it all just feels a bit overwhelming. So instead of doing all the things that you need …

End Of Summer Madness

End Of Summer Madness

This week has been full of end of summer madness. We seem to have been rushing around this week. Seeing people we haven’t managed to see all summer. Finishing off the school shopping. Which I have to admit has not been that bad this year, …

Time To Make Some Changes

Time To Make Some Changes

I have spent the most of this year knowing that I need to make some changes. I have debated them, I have worried about them, and I have gone round in circles with them. But now it is really time to make some changes. Its …

When Grief Isn’t Just Tears

When Grief Isn’t Just Tears

The easiest grief is the tears. They are so simple you can deal with them. You get sad you cry. They make sense. The other feelings that come with grief are the hardest. The feeling of nothingness. Just the raw pain. The pure sadness. The …

National Rainbow Baby Day 2021

National Rainbow Baby Day 2021

Today is National Rainbow Baby Day, a rainbow baby is a term used within the baby loss community for many years. Tommy’s describe a rainbow baby as a baby born following a loss during or after a pregnancy. For parents, rainbows symbolise hope and light …

Grief

Grief

Some days you get through all day with no tears Some days you wake up in tears Some days you cry a little Some days you cry a lot Some days you understand the tears Some days you have no understanding why you are standing …