Grief Is Hard

Grief Is Hard

I haven’t blogged much this week, because you know what grief is hard. You focus so much on the anniversaries, and the birthdays and celebrations that actually those days are never that difficult. Its the days after. They are the ones I feel the worst 

Wave of Light 2021

Wave of Light 2021

We don’t just remember you today. We don’t just miss you today. Every waking moment we think of you, we miss you. In our dreams we live our alternative life with you in it. Our broken hearts carry on forever changed. Forever missing a piece 

Babyloss Awareness Week 2021

Babyloss Awareness Week 2021

It’s babyloss awareness week, and I have to say this week it’s a tough one. I get it. I know why it’s important and it’s so so important. But when your nine years in I think it’s hard to keep going on about the fact 

There’s No Right Way

There’s No Right Way

There’s no right way to grieve. It is a hard thing to realise. But it is the truth. If you talk about your baby or child or any other loss every single day that is ok. If you never mention them that is ok. If 

Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month

Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month

October is here and October is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, with Babyloss Awareness Week in the middle from the 9th to 15th of October. It is a month and week that is important. That should be shouted about. That more people should be 

When Grief Isn’t Just Tears

When Grief Isn’t Just Tears

The easiest grief is the tears. They are so simple you can deal with them. You get sad you cry. They make sense. The other feelings that come with grief are the hardest. The feeling of nothingness. Just the raw pain. The pure sadness. The 

National Rainbow Baby Day 2021

National Rainbow Baby Day 2021

Today is National Rainbow Baby Day, a rainbow baby is a term used within the baby loss community for many years. Tommy’s describe a rainbow baby as a baby born following a loss during or after a pregnancy. For parents, rainbows symbolise hope and light 

Grief

Grief

Some days you get through all day with no tears Some days you wake up in tears Some days you cry a little Some days you cry a lot Some days you understand the tears Some days you have no understanding why you are standing 

Grief Isn’t Just Pain

Grief Isn’t Just Pain

Something I have learnt over the years is that grief isn’t just pain. Grief comes in so many different forms and you never know what it will be or how it will hit. It isn’t just pain and tears. It’s anger. It’s hurt. It’s brain 

Just An Earring

Just An Earring

It’s strange what you attach to your baby when they are no longer here. The boys have memory boxes at home. I have their first outfits, they first shoes, and little bits and pieces of things that they loved and that mean a lot to